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        <h1 id="人际关系"><a href="#人际关系" class="headerlink" title="人际关系"></a>人际关系</h1><p>人际关系该怎么处理，人总是在被人喜欢和讨厌中不断的变化。人与人之间总是有亲疏关系的不同。一个朋友以前和他合伙创业过，最后闹掰了。<br>当时闹的是反目成仇，彼此之间特别讨厌。但是他的应对方式引导我们把朋友关系继续维持住了，到现在关系还算可以。虽然他年纪不大，但是<br>这点让我非常佩服。从他的为人中，我想总结一些在人际交往中的心法。</p>
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<li>对方的称呼，尽量使用敬语。</li>
<li>多去邀请别人参加活动，不管是吃饭，还是娱乐活动。</li>
<li>夸奖他人特别珍视的人或物，比如孩子。</li>
<li>多给别人戴高帽，这样不仅不会贬低自己，还能提高自己的地位。</li>
<li>在别人发表自己的观点的时候，就算内心非常不屑，也不要直接反驳。因为没有必要，他不会因为你的反驳而改变自己的想法，只会加深成见。除非是涉及到自己的利益。</li>
<li>还有当别人发表与众不同的观点的时候，并表现的很得意。这个时候，恭维迎合一下，有奇效。</li>
<li>出了问题，永远不要人身攻击，就事论事，保持克制。</li>
<li>不要记恨别人，原谅别人，更是原谅自己。</li>
<li>有些情感是可以表达出来的。</li>
<li>多去理解别人的处境，宽容别人。</li>
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